Bottle number two: last night I posted a response to another bloggers item. He was purely venting frustration, built over many years. My rant was pompous and based on never having experienced his set of circumstances. He magnanimously replied to me, calmly explaining his stance. I went to bed feeling troubled and this morning removed the post. Sometimes it's good to bottle. Having an opinion is fine, but if we are to share it with the world - and it's contentious - then be ready for payback, even if the payback is done in a thoroughly considered way. Sometimes it will be heavy and personal. I don't want that.